P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY

Well once again it is P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY!! Although it has been a while, nothing has changed.  Today is the official end of the work week and a time when most of us have a little free time.  For those of you who don't have designated free time.......MAKE SOME!!! It is extremely important that we capture a moment for ourselves because happiness and peace of mind are essential. 

As women, we wear so many hats; mother, mate, friend, teacher, maid, daughter........... All of these hats require us to go in many directions.  Our moods and mannerisms are forced to move back and forth like pieces on a chess board.  It is enough to drive you CRAZY!! Which is why, finding and maintaining your own happiness is key.  Like I always say, "if mama ain't happy....... Ain't nobody happy". 

One great relaxer is girls time.  Get a few of your homegirls together, mix a few "adult drinks" and do whatever(watch movies, listen to music, talk ish, play with hair and make-up......WHATEVER).  One of my new favorite mixed drinks is a pink lemonade vodka made by Wave.  Eventhough it is already mixed, it has a bit of a kick, so I mix it with peach lemonade by calypso........... DELICIOUS!!!!!  After one or two of those, you will be ready for whatever, and I do mean WHATEVER!!! I know it always livens things up.

Any way, enjoy your weekend and be blessed!

P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!

ALRIGHT , ALRIGHT, ALRIIIGHT(in my Kevin Hart's daddy voice)!!!!!!!!!!  It is another P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY!!!!!  SO GET CRUNK WIT IT, GET LOOSE WIT IT......... BUT PLEASE DON'T LET BRUCE BRUCE HIT IT!!!  I KNOW THAT THE WEEK HAS BEEN HECTIC AS USUAL, BUT YOU MADE IT WITH YOUR  BEAUTIFUL SELVES.  AND YOU KNOW THAT IT IS TIME TO UNWIND, KICK BACK AND ENJOY.  I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE KIDS, FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT REQUIRE YOUR ATTENTION BUT TAKE A LITTLE TIME FOR YOU.  IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY AND ON TOP OF YOUR GAME, YOU ARE NO GOOD FOR ANYONE ELSE.  OR AS I LIKE TO SAY, "IF MAMA AINT HAPPY, AINT NOBODY HAPPY".  THE FIRST LAW OF NATURE IS SELF AND IT IS ALRIGHT TO BE SELFISH SOME TIMES.  IT MAY NOT BE ANYTHING MAJOR, BUT DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOURSELF, SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU HAPPINESS.

CHILD LET ME TELL, I LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO TO CELEBRATE ME!!!  IF I DON'T LOVE ME.... NOBODY ELSE WILL.  YOU GOT TO TREAT YOURSELF OR YOU WILL CHEAT YOURSELF, AND YOU CAN QUOTE ME ON THAT ONE.  THE WAY YOU TREAT YOURSELF, IS THE WAY THAT OTHERS WILL TREAT YOU.  IF A MAN KNOWS THAT YOU ARE HIGH MAINTENANCE AND YOU SPOIL YOURSELF, HE WILL FEEL COMPELLED TO DO THE SAME.  NO FOOL BRINGS WHITE ZINFANDEL TO A CRISTAL PARTY.  I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT MONETARY ONLY, I AM TALKING ABOUT TIME, BACK RUBS, FOOT MESSAGES, BUBBLE BATHS AND SO ON. 

SO LADIES PLEASE, WHAT EVER YOU DO OR DON'T DO, MAKE SURE YOU STEAL A PERSONAL MOMENT FOR YOURSELF.  SPORT THAT PRETTY LITTLE SMILE THAT THE WORLD NEEDS TO SEE.  AND BE BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE!!!