P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY!!!!!!!!!

ALRIGHT , ALRIGHT, ALRIIIGHT(in my Kevin Hart's daddy voice)!!!!!!!!!!  It is another P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY!!!!!  SO GET CRUNK WIT IT, GET LOOSE WIT IT......... BUT PLEASE DON'T LET BRUCE BRUCE HIT IT!!!  I KNOW THAT THE WEEK HAS BEEN HECTIC AS USUAL, BUT YOU MADE IT WITH YOUR  BEAUTIFUL SELVES.  AND YOU KNOW THAT IT IS TIME TO UNWIND, KICK BACK AND ENJOY.  I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE KIDS, FAMILY AND FRIENDS THAT REQUIRE YOUR ATTENTION BUT TAKE A LITTLE TIME FOR YOU.  IF YOU AREN'T HAPPY AND ON TOP OF YOUR GAME, YOU ARE NO GOOD FOR ANYONE ELSE.  OR AS I LIKE TO SAY, "IF MAMA AINT HAPPY, AINT NOBODY HAPPY".  THE FIRST LAW OF NATURE IS SELF AND IT IS ALRIGHT TO BE SELFISH SOME TIMES.  IT MAY NOT BE ANYTHING MAJOR, BUT DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOURSELF, SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU HAPPINESS.

CHILD LET ME TELL, I LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO TO CELEBRATE ME!!!  IF I DON'T LOVE ME.... NOBODY ELSE WILL.  YOU GOT TO TREAT YOURSELF OR YOU WILL CHEAT YOURSELF, AND YOU CAN QUOTE ME ON THAT ONE.  THE WAY YOU TREAT YOURSELF, IS THE WAY THAT OTHERS WILL TREAT YOU.  IF A MAN KNOWS THAT YOU ARE HIGH MAINTENANCE AND YOU SPOIL YOURSELF, HE WILL FEEL COMPELLED TO DO THE SAME.  NO FOOL BRINGS WHITE ZINFANDEL TO A CRISTAL PARTY.  I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT MONETARY ONLY, I AM TALKING ABOUT TIME, BACK RUBS, FOOT MESSAGES, BUBBLE BATHS AND SO ON. 

SO LADIES PLEASE, WHAT EVER YOU DO OR DON'T DO, MAKE SURE YOU STEAL A PERSONAL MOMENT FOR YOURSELF.  SPORT THAT PRETTY LITTLE SMILE THAT THE WORLD NEEDS TO SEE.  AND BE BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE!!!

WHO ARE YOU

It took me a long time to come to terms with the person that I am.  I thought that so many irrelevant things defined who I was, things like clothing, other materialistic goods and even other people.  I was so wrapped up in what others thought until I privately begin to embrace the person that people said I was. I was wasting so much time embracing a person that didn't exist instead of loving who this body housed.  In the midst of all this, I learned something very valuable, there is a big difference between embracing something and loving it.  When you embrace something, you take hold of it.  You hold it close to you, for whatever reason but that doesn't mean you love it.  Now when you love something, you have profound feelings for it, you have the strongest form of affection for it.  You can embrace something and not love it, with ease but it is hard to love without embracing it.   When I was embracing the person others said I was, I was not at all loving the true me.  It took me going through life trials to begin to truly love and embrace the real me.  I literally looked in the mirror one day and asked myself, "WHO ARE YOU".  I then made a list of all of the characteristics that I possessed and begin to exhibit those things.  Yes I was talked, laughed at and lied on, hell I still am.  However, now that I know who I am............. I could care less!!!

So I ask you my full figured diva's, who are you?  Are you that fat insecure chick that is willing to settle?  Are you less of a woman because you have more to love?  Are you just a waste of a pretty face?  Are you some lazy heifer sitting around letting the world pass you by?  WHO ARE YOU?  I will tell you who you are, you are that person that lives within you.  That smart, intelligent, fun loving, kind, important person.  You are not those wide hips, big boobs and butt, but you should love them because they are a part of you.  Never allow others to define who you are because they are probably defining what they see instead of who you are.  Do you know how many people seem to be one thing but are really something totally different? I will tell, millions!!!   Looks are deceiving, so let your actions define you.  

GREAT FIND!!!

LADIES, I DON'T KNOW ABOUT YOU BUT I LIVE FOR A GOOD COMFORTABLE GIRDLE.  WELL, EARLIER THIS WEEK, WHILE SHOPPING AT TARGET, I FOUND ONE THAT I AM VERY PLEASED WITH.  IT IS A HIGH WAIST SLIMMER BY BARELY THERE.  I DON'T KNOW HOW LONG THEY HAVE BEEN CARRYING THEM BUT THEY ARE A BIG MAMA'S BUT FRIEND!!  THEY ARE EXTREMELY COMFORTABLE AND THEY ARE VERY SMOOTH.  THE ONLY CATCH IS THAT THEY HAVE TO GO DOWN A SIZE TO GET VERY GOOD CONTROL.  THIS MEANS IF YOU WEAR A 2X, YOU MAY WANT TO PURCHASE A 1X OR EVEN A LARGE.  HOWEVER WITH THE MAXIMUM PRICE BEING ONLY $14.99, YOU CAN TAKE A LITTLE BIT OF A CHANCE.


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*THE ONE THAT IS DISPLAYED ON THE LINK IS NOT THE ON THAT I PURCHASED, THE ONE I PURCHASED ISN'T SHOWN.  I ONE THAT I AM SPEAKING OF COMES ALL THE WAY UP TO THE BREAST.

BIG-MAMA: P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY

BIG-MAMA: P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY: WELL LADIES, AS IT WILL BE EVERY FRIDAY....... TODAY IS P.H.A.T(PRETTY HOT AND TEMPTING) FRIDAY!!! NO SAD OR BAD NEWS. NO DEEP THOUGHT PRO...

P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY

WELL LADIES, AS IT WILL BE EVERY FRIDAY....... TODAY IS P.H.A.T(PRETTY HOT AND TEMPTING) FRIDAY!!!  NO SAD OR BAD NEWS.  NO DEEP THOUGHT PROVOKING TOPIC AND MOST OF ALL NO TEARJERKERS!!!  JUST HAPPINESS AND ENCOURAGING WORDS!!!!!!  


ON THIS P.H.A.T GIRL FRIDAY, I ENCOURAGE YOU ALL TO CELEBRATE YOU IN ALL OF YOUR SPLENDOR. CELEBRATE WHATEVER IT IS THAT MAKES YOU THE AMAZING PERSON YOU KNOW YOU ARE.  DO SOMETHING IN HONOR OF WHO YOU ARE, SOMETHING THAT BRINGS YOU JOY.  THERE IS A TIME FOR SELFISHNESS, DURING THAT TIME IT SHOULD BE ALL ABOUT YOU.  YOUR HAPPINESS IS REQUIRED, ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE LOVED ONES WHO DEPEND ON YOU.  HAPPIER YOU ARE, THE MORE YOUR BEAUTY RADIATES.  I WANT YOU TO ALL KNOW THAT YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO BE AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU DESIRE.  OUR TRUE BEAUTY HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR PHYSICAL FEATURES BUT WHAT IS EMBEDDED IN US THAT RADIATES OUTWARD.  OUR TRUE BEAUTY IS REALLY WHAT DEFINES US AND ALLOW THE WORLD THE PLEASURE OF KNOWING WHO WE TRULY ARE.

WELCOME

HELLO TO ALL OF YOU.  I AM VERY EXCITED ABOUT THIS BLOG, BECAUSE IT IS NEAR AND DEAR TO MY HEART.  THIS IS A PLACE OF COMFORT, ENCOURAGEMENT AND HAPPINESS FOR ALL MY PLUS SIZED SISTERS/DIVA'S.  THE GOAL IS TO TOUCH ON ANY SUBJECTS THAT YOU DEEM NECESSARY.  I WILL BE PROVIDING YOU WITH MY EMAIL ADDRESS SO THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO CONTACT ME ON A MORE PERSONAL AND PRIVATE LEVEL.  I AM VERY BOLD, OUTSPOKEN AND HONEST BUT I KNOW THAT EVERY WOMEN IS NOT LIKE THAT, SO IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO ME ABOUT SOMETHING AND TO WRITE ABOUT IT PRIVATELY, I WILL DO SO.  I REALLY WANT AS MUCH FEED BACK AS I CAN, SO PLEASE COMMENT!!!   I LOVE BEING A WOMAN, AND I ESPECIALLY LOVE BEING A PLUS SIZED WOMAN, BECAUSE IT REQUIRES EXTRA OF EVERYTHING!!!!  I WANT OTHER WOMEN LIKE ME TO KNOW THAT WE HAVE THE SAME BEAUTY AS ANY OTHER WOMAN AND ARE JUST AS VALUABLE.  


I WILL ALSO BE GIVING BEAUTY TIPS, SPOTLIGHTING COMPANIES AND SERVICES.  HOWEVER, ANY AND EVERYTHING WILL BE USED FOR THE UP BUILDING OF YOU.  NEVER FEEL AFRAID OR SHY ABOUT ADDRESSING ANY ISSUE, THAT IS WHAT WE ARE HERE FOR....................BIGMAMACLOTHING@GMAIL.COM